Relationship & Love, It’s Not As complicated As We Make It Seem by Favour Nwabueze
You see this thing called relationship and love, it’s not as complicated as we make it seem most times.
When you decide to go into a relationship with the intention of building it into something meaningful, the interest of the other person has to be carried along.
It’s not just you. It’s a two man thing. You compliment each other.
Let me tell you a story. Not necessarily a story.
I’m married to a man who sees no reason why an adult will spend so much celebrating a birthday. To him, it’s a total waste of time and money.
I’m the exact opposite. I believe birthdays are to be celebrated.
When his birthday comes, he hardly remembers. But weeks before it comes, I’m already making plans and arrangements on how to celebrate him. Not necessarily throwing a party but something special must be done on that day.
He appreciates it each time I do this and wouldn’t even notice if I don’t. He’s so indifferent about it.
He knows I love birthdays.
When my birthday comes, remember he doesn’t know why I have to throw a birthday party or make a big deal out of birthdays but he still goes along to provide everything needed for it. He comes home bearing gifts and all those things.
He goes out of his way to celebrate me on my birthday and do what makes me happy not because he enjoys it.
He does this because it puts a smile on my face and he cares about my smile.
He realized it’s not all about him. He doesn’t fancy this but I do. Doing it will take nothing away from him but it will add something to mine.
It doesn’t matter if you love a particular thing or not. If you’re in a relationship with someone, it’s a sacrifice you make. You go ahead to put a smile on his/her face as often as possible.
Sacrifices and compromise has to play out.
It’s important you know the love language of your partner and the tiny little things things that brightens his/her face. This will make it easier for you.
Do something for him/her because she loves it and not because you find it justifiable or reasonable.
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