REASONS SOME LADIES DATE & MARRY WRONGLY by Dr Sam Ibezim

REASONS SOME LADIES DATE & MARRY WRONGLY.

1. Most ladies date & marry wrongly because God is absence in everything & they see the need to allow God to lead them in their decision or choice making.

2.Most of them are carnal, material & financial minded than spiritual minded.

3.They are move by what a man drives & not what drive a man.

4. Some ladies judge men from their physical appearance: men may have good looks and handsome face but their heart may be dirty, wicked and bad. Stop judging a man from his physical looks,his wealth, colour, heights & vocabulary etc.

5. Most Ladies are easily deceived with sugarcoated words: For the fact that he tells you sweet words does not mean that he is a nice guy.

Don’t fall in love with him because of his sweet words and big grammar. It can be dangerous because ladies cannot live by sweet words that proceed out of the mouth of men but by character & genuine love ?????.

6.Some Ladies do fall in love easily with guys who are celebrities with special talents, etc.: Note that he may be talented but that does not make him to have a good heart or character. A person can be a celebrity and still have a wicked heart. Don’t date him because he is a celebrity,date him because he have a good character & heart.

7. Many ladies nowadays hardly date broke guys, they want to date wealthy men with flashy cars because of money, fame & “the pride of my guy is very rich”:

They don’t mind dating Yahoo boys, armed robbers, kidnappers,ritualist etc provided he is lavishing them with money.

As you look at the money of his pocket & bank account & the numerous cars and houses, look at the content of his heart & character also. Wealth does not guarantee complete happiness but character do.Wealth can fly or disappear over night but character will remain there.

8. Some ladies love guys who are very active in church activities, dedicated to church,etc: well it is very good to date and marry such person but be led by the spirit of God,because they are so many committed religious & hypocritical people in the church,people like Judas Iscariot etc.

Don’t be carried away by there activities but be led by the holy Spirit to avoid the wrong person with religious spirit.
For the fact that he is active in church activities does not mean that he will be a good husband or husband material.

9.Some ladies are after material & financial gains & are here by deceived by men who are ready to give them whatever they desire in return of sex etc.

A married man can spoil you with money & whatever you need, provided you accept to be second or sixth wife with a lot of fake promises of taken you to America & buying the best estate for you in Dubai lol ?⭕?.

Lots of ladies date & marry wrongly because of material & financial gains. They met men that gives them whatever they demand.

Don’t sale yourself,your destiny because of peanut money & material gain.set a standard, wait on the Lord for your best.

10.Some ladies are desperate for marriage because of pressure from the family or friends. Some are desperate because their age-mate,class-mate have got married. Lot of ladies are desperate for so many reasons but no matter your reasons, desperation leads to wrong choice or marriage.

Nothing sponsor wrong marriage like desperation. Don’t be desperate to marry. Wait upon the Lord because God’s time is the best not your time or our time.

REASONS SOME LADIES DATE & MARRY WRONGLY.
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1.let the holy Spirit leads you in everything.

2.Be prayerful.

3.set a standard & don’t let anyone cross the boundary.

4.Date purposefully.

5.Don’t be desperate to fall in love & when you fall, don’t leave your brain behind.

6. When you fall in love,take your time to study your man, search his heart & know if he is a man of integrity.By their fruits you shall know them.

7.Don’t be moved by their sugarcoated mouth or words, be move by their character & action.

8. Don’t give a man all of your heart immediately.protect it to avoid heartbreak ??. If you give a man your heart completely, when he brake it, you won’t see the piece to pick but when you give him half, you will see ? what to pick in other to forge ahead.

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