How do I put myself in that position by Favour Nwabueze
There’s a woman I was chatting with and she left what we were discussing and started asking me nonsense questions from the blues.??
We were just discussing random things when she did like she just resurrected and said…
“eheeee, that reminds me. How do you monitor your husband’s movements.”??? eskis me?
“Pardon”, I said to her in twisted mouth.
“You know na, one needs to know the whereabouts of their spouse each and every point in time. You’ve to make sure he actually travelled to the place he said he was traveling to.”
… you know men.
“Me I no fit shout ooh. That’s why my husband and I installed trackers on our phones. I know his location any time any day and he knows mine. That way, he can never cheat on me.” ??
“Apart from knowing his location, what else does the tracker do?”
“Nothing. But at least, whenever he travels my mind is at rest.”
“I don’t like it I said to her. I was thinking it rings an alarm when your husband is about to begin thrusting another woman.” ??
“Any tracker that’s not going to make my phone hop up and down to indicate thrusting is not worth being on my phone.”??
She was looking pale already ..”but at least you know his location and…
“Listen, I’m not interested in your tracker. I’ll really understand if this is a business you’re doing and you’re trying to get sales but I’ll be disappointed if it’s not.”
“It’s not my business ooh. I’m only trying to introduce it to you.”
“What makes you think your husband can’t be in his exact location and still be having sex with 50 women a day”?
She kept quiet.
“It’s helping our trust. At least we know our whereabouts.”
“You need to confirm his location, now you’ve. Do you know what he’s doing there? You don’t need a tracker on your phone. You need to work on yourselves. Both of you.”
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How do you put yourself in this kind of position that you have to constantly log into an app to determine if your husband or wife is lying or not?
What happened to trust?
How can I be so worried any time my husband travels that he might actually be going to Lagos and not Kano?
How do I put myself in that position?
I trust him to be going to Kano if he says he’s going to Kano and any day I need a device to determine if he actually is in Kano, then I have no business being in a marriage with him.
That’s so much high Bp and I’m too young for that. If for any reason he says he’s in Lagos and I call his colleague to confirm, then I should number my days in such a marriage. I love my peace of mind mbok.
Trust is paramount in a relationship. You need it like water. You don’t go around snooping at every opportunity because it will kill you.
Learn to trust. Build your trust and make yourself trustworthy. You can’t keep shouting ‘trust me’ when your words are two parallel lines that can never meet.
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