𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄 𝐌𝐄
𝐖𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐧 𝐛𝐲 𝐉𝐮𝐥𝐢𝐞 𝐒𝐭𝐞𝐩𝐡𝐞𝐧
𝐄𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞 5
Early the next morning, Pastor Amos was at Mr. and Mrs. Abayomi’s house with his wife, Pastor Amos started by praying with them after the prayer, he looked towards Mrs. Abayomi and said we are here because of what you came to tell me yesterday sister Abayomi, well I told you that I was going to hear from your husband and get back to you, yes! I have listened to your husband and heard his part of the story, so I have decided to come because judging from what I heard from both of you this marriage can still work, so sister Abayomi now tell us why do you want to end this marriage…
Sister Abayomi started by thanking the pastor for taking time from his busy schedule to come to their home that morning and she said that the main reason why she wanted a divorce was because her husband did not love her…
Daddy my husband has never shown me any love in this marriage, I am lonely, no care, no attention nothing what is the need of being in a marriage where there is no love…
Every day he comes back late from work and stays on his laptop or phone for a long time, without even looking at me…I complained about that to him at the early stage of our marriage but when he refused to change, I too started engaging myself on my phone and that became a serious issue in our house, anytime my husband sees me on my phone he will say he will collect my phone from me and smash it if I don’t stop touching my phone each time he is around.
Daddy, ask him how many times has he ever been around with me in this marriage… I live with this man in this house but we are strangers to ourselves, no bond, we don’t talk, we don’t gist, we are just roommates, our relationship is too official and I don’t like it at all he is not making me happy.
I need my husband but I don’t get to see him, no love in this marriage at all I am tired I have tried enduring it for so long, I don’t want to die before my time, I want to be free of all the tension that comes with this marriage let me just go and be happy again.
The day we had our last misunderstanding 6 months ago, while we were arguing about the phone because he saw me using my phone and he ordered me to drop it as usual that he wanted to talk with me and if I didn’t drop that phone in my hands he was going to collect the phone and smash it… I said I would not drop it because I became angry with the way he was talking and commanding me, can’t he talk to me like his wife? I am not his daughter, so he stood up to forcefully get the phone from me and as we were struggling I didn’t know what came over me because he was choking me and I slapped him!
It was a mistake, Sir, I regretted doing that but he stopped relating with me since that day, and he cut me off completely I tried getting his attention so I could apologize but he wouldn’t let me I even tried to reach him on phone he does not pick up my calls nor respond to my text message, he even blocked me on social media, and started behaving strangely, Sir.
He got back home early the next day from work and packed his things from our room to the visitor’s room, I tried to beg him but he wouldn’t listen he said the only way he can forgive and let go is when I go to his village and perform some sacrifice, that in their place it is a taboo for a woman to slap a man. That I must travel to his people and do whatever they say I should do if not he was not going to have anything to do with me again sister Abayomi said crying
Pastor, he stopped eating my food and for 6 months now I have lived alone with my children in this house, I cry every day in this marriage this man does not care, 3 months ago, I came down with a serious cough that would not let me sleep especially at night. It doesn’t even let me do some activities but do you know that my husband still does care?…
I went to the hospital all alone and took care of myself all alone, I am married but single. Kia the level of bitterness this man has shown me these past six months is unimaginable…Daddy, I am fed up, I don’t love him again anymore because he does not love me either.
Wow! Exclaimed the pastor…
This matter is getting deeper and deeper, I think we now see why sister Abayomi gives attention to her phone more than her husband , may the Lord grant pastor Amos the right wisdom to judge this matter ooh
𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐱𝐭 𝐞𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞
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