𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄 𝐌𝐄
𝐖𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐧 𝐛𝐲 𝐉𝐮𝐥𝐢𝐞 𝐒𝐭𝐞𝐩𝐡𝐞𝐧
𝐄𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞 8
Couples should learn not to ignore any issue that displeases their partner, anything your partner starts complaining about is worth giving attention to, you see when you ignore her first complaint about you not giving her the needed attention she decides to solve it herself the wrong way.
You should know again that the way to solve conflict in marriage is not by ignoring them, conflict or misunderstandings in marriage should be amicably resolved the first time it ever occurs if not it will become a big problem in the future.
A happy marriage is not a marriage without conflicts, no! It is a marriage that knows how to resolve conflicts harmoniously, conflicts are not supposed to be threats to a marriage if given the right attention they are meant to enhance our relationships and make husband and wife a better version of themselves… managing your differences is a key factor of a working marriage. When you disagree on any matter, make sure you agree again peacefully before you can move on so that you can make progress in life and destiny.
A troubled marriage is not healthy for a child of God, and if you really want to make progress in every other area of life then you should by all means make sure there is peace in your marriage.
Revengeful spirit, “do me I do you” is another big enemy of love in marriage, if your partner is not treating you right or he/she is not making you happy… the right way to communicate that to him/her is not to pay him back with that same evil deeds…two wrongs cannot make a right.
Now you can see where all that is leading you both…there is no gain in do me I do you in marriage, you must learn to always forgive your partner ahead of any offense if not you will not be able to achieve a happy marriage.
Sister Abayomi, I want you to kneel before your husband and ask for his forgiveness you did wrong by slapping your husband, that should never be heard of you again as a daughter of Zion.
Sister Abayomi quickly went on her knees and begged her husband to forgive her, brother Abayomi smiled and pulled her up to himself, they both hugged and forgave each other.
The pastor smiled and threw up his two hands into the air praising God, the pastor’s wife joined and the four of them all laughed and smiled…
You see brother and sister Abayomi, the two of you love each other ooh, but when love is not communicated well in marriage it could be misunderstood. You must learn the right way to communicate love to your partner…
Brother Abayomi, a woman’s understanding of love is care, attention, kindness, and provision. You must always be there for your wife don’t make her feel lonely or abandoned please…try to study her and know her love language too, this assignment is for the two of you, please discover your partner’s love language so that you use it to communicate love to him/her.
Then he turned to sister Abayomi and said you too note that for a man love is respect, submission, honor, and special care. If you refuse to give your husband all these, then you have yourself to blame…
Then to the both of you, mind the kind of words that come out of your mouth towards your partner no matter how angry you get, you must never use hurtful words on each other because words are seeds, once spoken, it is hard to forget. I am happy that the two of you have forgiven each other, please let’s start this marriage on a new slate, old things are passed away, behold your marriage has become new!
Please the two of you should come together to deliberately make this marriage work. I know you can do it if you agree. You must learn to easily let go of issue, another enemy of a happy marriage is “claiming of right”… Don’t wait for your partner to come and apologize before you forgive them, the Bible says in Colossians 3:13-14 that we should create allowance for each other’s mistakes…
Any time there is misunderstanding in the home try and resolve it immediately, if the two of you are finding it difficult to come into agreement then you can now seek godly counsel to help you resolve it amicably. When issues are left untreated it will graduate to bitterness, hatred and resentment. May the Lord give you the right wisdom to succeed in marriage in Jesus name.
So shall we pray Father we bless your holy name, thank you for restoring peace and joy into the family of these your children thank you Lord for how easy you made this reconciliation to be, I pray that this peace will remain in this union forever in Jesus, we command you demon of misunderstanding assigned to trouble the peace of this marriage your time is up forever in Jesus mighty name we pray…
Amen…the two of them said unanimously then pastor Amos and his wife happily left the Abayomi’s house that day and the marriage continued to do well years after.
𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐞𝐧𝐝!
God bless you thank you for reading to the end…
I hope you learned something new from this story, may you continue to do well in your marital journey with your spouse in Jesus name. I love you💕
I wish you a happy marriage all the way💃💃💃
Hmmmmm this story is really filled with great lessons kudos to the writer and also to the poster
Amen