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Hmmmmm, Mary breathed adjusting her seat very well so that she could talk to me, Chioma it was when I brought Sunny my ex-husband home to our parents that they told me about it too.
I told Sunny and we started looking for a solution, we went to see one Baba, who took us to the river and called out the spirit of the woman he did some incantations and told us to do some rituals to appease the woman and the baba assured us that everything would be fine.
Then we continued our wedding plans and got married but after the wedding my husband changed, he started hating me, he beats and cheats on me anyhowโฆ
Me knowing what was on the ground decided to endure it and started looking for solutions.
I called Mama and told her everything, she encouraged me to be patient and promised to go see that Baba and see what he can do to make my husband start loving meโฆbut for where?โฆ
Mama went to see the baba, and they did more rituals but the matter got worse by the day. My husband does not want to have anything to do with me at all, he does not sleep with me but he comes home with different girls every nightโฆ
I shouted what!
Yes, she nodded and continued, he will command me to tidy up the bed and cook for them when they are done. They will sleep on the bed in our matrimonial bed and I will sleep on the ground in the living room.
He will even ask me to serve the girls well whenever they come. He does not give me money for anything but I stayedโฆ
I tried to endure it all, I became a house help in my husbandโs house, I reported him to people, and many people tried to intervene but it did not workโฆ
One day, one of my friends in Lagos there Bose she is a Yoruba lady took me to her church a white garment Church, the pastor took me to a river and bathed me, he then gave me something to rub on my face and gave me a substance to use and cook for Sunny when I get home, he assured me that my husband was going to start loving me afterward.
But lo and behold, before I got home that dayโฆ hmmmmm she sighed again and wipe some of the little tears left in her eyesโฆ Sunny had dropped a divorce letter and a note for meโฆ
He wrote that he has gone for good and that I should move on with my life that I should not bother looking for him that he already moved on with his life tooโฆ
My sister, when I saw the note, I collapsed thank God for my friend Bose, she was the one that helped resuscitates me that dayโฆ
That was the beginning of the journey for meโฆ
I refused to give up so I ran out seeking help, I called Monday Sunnyโs best friend to try to know if my husband Sunny told him anything because I noticed that he blocked me on all platforms I tried calling him immediately but he blocked me, I noticed a withdrawal from Monday too, he was not willing to disclose to me about Sunny’s where about.
Then I ran to his family house, I traveled to Sapele to see Sunny’s parents and they were shocked to hear the news I came with they also started trying Sunnyโs lines and find out that he blocked them too.
Tears became my food day and night, I cried my eyes out, and I stayed in Sepele for 3 days and traveled back to Lagos without still getting any news about Sunnyโs whereabouts. It was a dark moment for meโฆ.
Papa called and encourage me to come back home, but I refused; I said I will wait for him; I kept searching and hoping that someday my husband will return.
Three months later, I got info that Sunny got married and relocated with his new wife to Canada.
That day! I cried my eyes out, I love my husband I did not do anything to warrant any of theseโฆ
Bose my friend was with me in all of this, so she encouraged me to start life all over again, my dear I put myself together, relocated from Lagos, and started life again, and as you can see I am back on my feet now, God has been good to meโฆ
Is been eight years since Sunny left, see me I am doing well in my career and I have moved on with my life now but I fear marriage more than I fear the devil himselfโฆ
๐๐จ ๐๐ ๐๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ฎ๐๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐๐ฉ๐ข๐ฌ๐จ๐๐ ๐โฆ
๐๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฆ!, ๐๐๐ซ๐ฒ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐๐๐๐ซ๐๐, ๐ฌ๐ก๐ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ข๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐๐ฏ๐ ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐ฆ๐๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐๐ ๐
๐๐๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ ๐ค๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฏ๐ข๐๐ฐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐ฌ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง
๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ฌ๐ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐, ๐ฌ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ง๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐๐ ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฐ๐ซ๐ข๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ง๐ค ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ
๐๐ซ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ง ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ข๐ ๐๐ญ๐๐ฉ๐ก๐๐ง, ๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ซ ๐จ๐ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ค๐ ๐๐๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐๐ ๐, ๐๐จ๐ฏ๐ ๐ฆ๐, ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐๐จ๐ฏ๐, ๐๐๐ข๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ฆ๐, ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ก๐ฎ๐ซ๐๐ก ๐๐๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ฌโฆ
๐๐จ ๐ซ๐๐๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฌ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ซ๐ข๐๐ฌ, ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐๐๐ฌ๐ ๐๐จ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐จ๐๐๐ข๐๐ข๐๐ฅ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐จ๐จ๐ค ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ @ ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ซ๐๐๐ฆ ๐๐๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐๐ ๐
๐๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐ซ๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐๐จ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐๐๐ข๐ญ, ๐๐จ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ญ๐๐ค๐ ๐๐ฐ๐๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ ๐๐ซ๐๐๐ข๐ญ๐ฌ! ๐๐จ๐ ๐๐ฅ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ.
